Welcome to Curious Realms

We’re Malika and Simon — partners in life, love, and adventure.

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We met in a tantric temple and instantly clicked, not just as lovers, but as kindred explorers. What began as a whirlwind romance quickly became a shared mission: to bring more safety, presence, and possibility into the world of sexuality, intimacy, and healing.

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Malika is passionate about sex education, podcaster, and long-time student of tantra. She’s on a mission to dismantle body shame and make healthy, empowered sexuality feel totally normal — because it is. Her podcast Totally Normal dives into everything from consent to kink to anatomy, with humor, honesty, and heart.

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Simon is a couples therapist and organizational trainer with over 25 years of experience. He’s also been part of the kink world for as long as he can remember — fascinated by the ways that power, sensation, and trust can open deeper pathways to connection and healing.

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Together, we created Curious Realms to share what we love: conscious kink, playful exploration, honest communication, and embodied intimacy. Using two core tools — the Body Compass and the Erotic Map — we guide people to discover their edges, express their truths, and experience pleasure as a pathway to self-discovery.

We believe that sexual energy is life force energy. When held with care and curiosity, it can be a powerful force for healing and joy.

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At Curious Realms, we offer workshops and retreats where you can:

• Explore your desires and boundaries at your own pace

• Learn to listen to your body and trust your yes and no

• Play with kink, tantra, and touch in safe, consent-led ways

• Build deeper connection — with yourself, your body, and others

 

This is the adventure we’re on. We’d love to share it with you.